I had an interesting conversation with a friend the other day about whether one should be open with their feeling to their bf/gf or play hard to get and the conclusion was that one should be more open to themselves about their own feelings than with their partner. Why? Because people tend to absorb the feelings that were so openly given to them and keep theirs for someone that is not willing to share any. It is very weird and definitely very painful to those that are by naturally open-hearted and very sensitive but what can you do? Nothing, unless you are willing to change your personality for your own sake and find the best way to keep your heart safe from those that are willing to suck it dry and leave you for someone else.
I have been the same, I still am the same. I give feelings to those that aren’t willing to give me any and do so from the beginning and when that relationship hasn’t worked out I feel cheated and used. A victim in other words but victimized by my own actions. I am acting in a way that makes it so easy for others to use me. What should I do to change? Well I need to be more selfish, more in control of my own feelings! Realize what I am forth and fight for it, I also need to stand up for myself when needed and when someone isn’t good for me and my life to get rid of them.
In other words there is a lot of work to be done so I can say I’m strong enough to enter a relationship and deal with the emotional scaring I have left from previous relationships. Hopefully it will not take long and in the end I’m going to be a brand new person ready to live the “big love” before it’s too late.
Yours trythfully,
xxx.
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